When Buying your Baby Essentials There are Some Things You Won’t Want to be Without

Preparing for the arrival of a new baby is an exciting time. Shopping for essentials is an experience that many parents enjoy, as it allows them to put practical steps in motion to begin their journey to family life.

However, for first time parents deciding what to buy can be confusing. So many accessories and accoutrements are marketed as essentials and families can find it hard to discern which items are needed and which will never be used.

At Vertbaudet, parents will find a great stock of essentials for those early days, all of which have been carefully selected to help ease the path into new parenthood.

New Baby Clothing Essentials

New babies need clothing that is cosy and comfortable, keeps them warm and accommodates their first tentative movements without chafing or rubbing.

When buying baby clothes for the first time, parents should bear a few things in mind:

  • New babies need frequent changing. Buying large numbers of essentials, such as vests and sleepsuits, is advisable. The last thing a tired new mother wants to do is find herself without any clean baby clothes for her precious charge after a night time change, or just as she hopes to leave the house for a visit or check up.
  • While fashionable little outfits such as jeans or fancy dresses may look adorable on a newborn, these should really be reserved for special occasions. The reason for this is that they do not have the same comfort level as traditional baby clothes.
  • Ease of access is the key to successful changing on the go. Parents will want to buy baby clothes that take this into account and allow for the fast removal of outfits if necessary, such as after nappy leaks or spit-up incidents.

New Baby Feeding Essentials

If your family plans on exclusive breastfeeding, then you won’t necessarily need much feeding equipment in the early days. However, having a breast pump on hand can be a good idea if mum wants to express feeds to be offered by others. In this case she will also need a supply of bottles and a steriliser, both of which are essentials for families that plan to formula feed.

Helpful feeding accessories for both breast and bottle-feeding families include:

  • Feeding cushions – These carefully shaped cushions can be used to help a breastfeeding baby to achieve an optimum latching position, while they also make a great support for babies taking a bottle feed.
  • Muslin squares – Many mums swear by muslin squares as their must-have feeding accessory. Perfect for mopping up spills and spits, these wash and dry easily and can be put to a variety of ingenious uses as the baby grows.

New Baby Bathing and Changing Essentials

Regular bathing is an important part of the newborn routine, helping to keep the little ones happy and healthy as well as being a cornerstone in the establishment of a recognisable night time routine. This can, in turn, help to establish healthy sleep patterns.

New parents will want to invest in a baby bath, which can be placed on a stand or surface to help save parents from stretching and straining. The addition of a bath support can also help ease the stress of baby bath time with inflatable and foam designs reducing the risk of baby slipping during bathing (although parents should ensure that baby is manually supported at all times). Mums and dads-to-be may wish to consider purchasing baby towels with hooded or apron designs, which help to keep everyone warm and dry at bath time.

Every family will need a well-stocked changing box or nappy caddy, which can be moved from room to room. This saves parents from frantic searches for wipes, baby powder or clean nappies when required.

The Ultrasound Experience

The days of the ultrasound are some of the most exciting and memorable days of the pregnancy for many expectant mothers.

While checking the baby’s health is obviously the most important objective of that ultrasound, parents anticipate the ultrasound for other reasons as well.

The first ultrasound confirms the pregnancy and establishes a due date. That ultrasound also allows mom to see this baby she has been carrying around for the past seven or eight weeks or so…a rewarding and emotional experience even if the parents can’t make out exactly what they are seeing on that blurry, black and white screen. Typically, the next regularly scheduled ultrasound is the big day when parents find out if they are having a girl or boy.

Below are some important and interesting tidbits from Women’s Health Associates, an ob gyn in Missouri, that shed light on the ultrasound process and might help make the day more special for the parents.

How often is the ultrasound accurate in predicting gender? More than 99% of the time.

How early in the pregnancy can an ultrasound detect baby’s gender? This actually depends on the weight of the mother. For lighter mothers, the ultrasound can detect the gender as early as 17 weeks, while for heavier mothers, the ultrasound can detect the gender by the 22nd week.

Can the technician or doctor always tell you the gender in that second ultrasound? Not necessarily. If the baby’s legs are crossed or they are turned the wrong direction and refuse to move, then the ultrasound cannot pick up the gender.

Are there any tips to increase the likelihood the baby will get into position to detect the gender? If the baby is active, chances are they will move around during that ultrasound and at some point he or she will be in a position where the ultrasound can detect the gender. If the baby is sleeping inside the womb, they are less likely to move around.

Scheduling the ultrasound after breakfast or lunch, or eating a snack before the ultrasound will increase the likelihood the baby is active. Also, drinking water gives mother more fluid, which makes the ultrasound that much more clear and easier to detect.

How many parents choose to know the gender? The overwhelming majority of parents, roughly 90%, want to know. But in recent years, there has been an increasing number of parents who want the gender to be a surprise. This may be because so many other things are less of a surprise.

During the second ultrasound, what are some of the health issues the doctor is taking a look at? During this exam the doctor will look for heart defects. The doctor will also check whether the spine is straight, whether the baby has a cleft palate or club feet. Doctors will also see whether the baby might have hydrocephalus (a buildup of fluid inside the brain) and will also check to make sure there are two kidneys, and that they are the right size and in the right location.

What is a 3D ultrasound and how is it different from a 2D ultrasound? The 3D ultrasound sends sound waves toward the fetus at different angles, which are then reconstructed by the computer to form a 3D image of the fetus. The 2D ultrasound sends those sound waves at a single angle producing a 2D image. While Women’s Health Associates and most other ob gyn clinics can provide 3D ultrasounds, a 2D is still the most common ultrasound used and 3D ultrasounds are typically used only if a defect is detected in a baby.

While the 3D ultrasound is better at honing in on an area of the fetus and providing detail such as the size or depth of a particular abnormality, a 2D ultrasound is just as good at initially spotting those anomalies. While there is no conclusive evidence that ultrasounds are harmful for babies, doctors go with the 2D ultrasound for the normal checkup since that ultrasound does not take as long and thus exposes the baby to less ultrasound waves.

Prevent Stretch Marks During Pregnancy

Pregnancy Marks Removal

By Lynn Shannon M Bailey

Although there’s nothing wrong with stretch marks – you can think of them proudly as a living medal of your pregnancy – you can still do a lot to prevent them or reduce their severity. The chances of developing stretch marks during pregnancy are high, around 90%. Preventing them really is the best approach because even though they fade over time they are permanent. If you give your skin the best possible care from day one, you will greatly minimise the chance of developing stretch marks.

Natural Healing for stretch marks

There are a few ways that you can naturally reduce the appearance of stretch marks and of course, to avoid them in the first place. These include anti-striae (anti-tearing) strategies, maximising skin elasticity, nutrition for the skin tissues and light massage. Continue reading

Foetal Alcohol Syndrome – What Is It?

What Is Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder?

By Eirian Hallinan

Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder is an umbrella term which describes the various birth defects which can occur in people whose mothers drink alcohol during their pregnancy.

The four areas of criteria for full diagnosis are growth deficiency, central nervous system damage, prenatal alcohol exposure and facial features. There are lots of children who are affected by FASD but do not meet the full diagnostic criteria and experience major difficulties.

Any alcohol, no matter how little that is drunk by an expectant mother, will cross into the placenta and can possibly result in the baby having defects at birth. These can include behavioural and learning disabilities plus physical and mental defects. The child will have these problems for life. Continue reading

Keeping a Pregnancy Journal

Keeping a Pregnancy Journal – Creating a Keepsake of Memories for You and Your Baby to Be

When you first find out that you are pregnant, it can be hard to keep it quiet, especially when you want to tell the world. That’s ok; you’ll remember everything from the day you found out you were pregnant to when you give birth right?

Those nine months do usually go so fast though, and with the excitement of expecting a new addition to the family coupled with tiredness, nausea and weird food cravings you may just forget what it was like.

That’s why many moms-to-be decide to keep a pregnancy journal, so that not only will they remember the journey, but also it makes a beautiful keepsake to give their child as they grow. Continue reading

Who Gets To Name The Baby?

Most couples today usually choose the baby names together, thinking that it’s a lovely way for dad to be involved when mom is pregnant.  But things don’t always go to plan, especially when both couples have different favourites. 

So if you can’t agree, who has final say?

A survey by babycenter.com of over 27,000 voters found that while most couples do choose and agree on names together (55%), if there is a dispute then mom gets her choice most of the time (39%).  Dad only gets his say in 5% of cases.

When narrowing down name choices then it’s pretty close whether to tell your chosen names to friends and family members.  Only 46% of couples share their choices while 54% choose to keep hush until baby arrives.  This is probably because many people want to keep their names to themselves and don’t want to be influenced by others (especially if they’ve decided on a great name together). 

Speaking of being influenced, most respondents said they trust their own judgement over others (59%) when it comes to good baby names, although 38% said they would take other people’s suggestions into consideration.  Only 2% of respondents would seriously consider other people’s suggestions and ideas though, even so far as overriding their own choices.  This happens more often in families where a specific name should be used for traditional, cultural or religious reasons.

So what do you think?  Who gets to name the baby in your family and why?

Office star Jenna Fischer pregnant with her first baby

Jenna Fisher is following her on-screen pregnancy and is now really pregnant with her first child. She has just confirmed that she is expecting her first child with husband Lee Kirk and is due mid September 2011.

Jenna, who plays Pam Halbert on the TV series The Office, played out an onscreen pregnancy with TV husband Jim last year so let’s hope she picked up some tips. During filming, Jenna’s sister was pregnant with her niece Cecelia which made her want to start a family of her own. “When Cecelia was 3 weeks old, Pam was on maternity leave, so I had a whole week off to spend with her … It was awesome”.

Lee and Jenna were married on July 3, 2010. They met as Lee is a scriptwriter and romance blossomed during weekly script dinners between the two. Jenna says she knew Lee was the one for her when she looked at him and thought “I’m looking at basically the perfect man”. Awww.

We wish Jenna and Lee all the best for a healthy happy pregnancy and the forthcoming new addition to their family.